Oh yes, the schooling has been a big source of concern for us. But we are going to be home schooling. There are many different programs that he can do to get either his HS diploma or the GSCE, (I think that is what it is, but I've likely got that wrong.) Then, I would arrange for him to attend meet ups with other home schooled kids.
My fiance does meet the income requirements for us both and can get the needed permission for us to live with him. He is currently in the Army and lives on camp.
In regards to sole custody, I do not have a custody agreement with his father. He is not really in the picture anymore and has some major mental health issues and since we were never married, a custody agreement has never been put into place. I had read somewhere online that a letter from the other parent giving consent on the move could be good enough. I am fairly sure I can get that with the help of my son's grandparents. Right now there is a protection order in place so no contact between the two of us is allowed. He is fully aware of my intentions to move and has spoken briefly to my son about it and really didn't seem to care much.
I was able to obtain a US passport with out his father's consent based on our circumstances and the fact that he is not allowed contact with me and hasn't been for well over a year now. In fact, he is likely going to be facing jail time due to a probation violation. (yes I know, I really knew how to pick them in the past.)
Do you know if a letter of consent will be enough? Again, thank you for your reply!