Yes we can do that, after all he comes to the U.S. every month. so you are saying get married in America, move to the UK with my American marriage certificated and validatE the marriage in the UK.
You don't need to validate anything in the UK. You just apply for a spousal visa, showing you are married, and then move to the UK.
If you still want to have a wedding in the UK, you can just do it as a blessing and not a legal ceremony, since you will already be married
Would the process be easier that way? Thank you for your patience !!
Much easier and cheaper:
Marry in the UK- apply for 6-month fiance visa (currently £1,464, but prices will rise in March/April, plus £551 for priority processing to get it processed faster, if you wish)
- move to the UK
- you cannot work, study or use the NHS for 'free' until after you are married and have received your next visa (so you will need health insurance)
- wait at least 7 days, then give notice to marry
- wait at least 28 days, possibly up to 70 days, then get married (so you have to be careful with your timing and don't book the wedding until you have the visa)
- after the wedding, apply for FLR(M) to stay in the UK. Currently this costs £993 plus £500 IHS surcharge (to use the NHS for 'free'. It takes about 8 weeks by post, or you can pay £590 more to apply in person for a same day decision
- once you have the FLR(M), you can start working
Total visa cost
= Fiance visa: £1464 + (£551) and FLR(M) visa: £993 + £500 + (£590)
= between £2957 and £4098
but the prices may well rise in March/April and it could be a lot more
Marry in the US- he flies to the US... he doesn't need a visa to marry as long as he will be returning to live in the UK afterwards
- you get married
- apply for 33-month spousal visa (currently £1,464, but prices will rise in March/April, plus £600 IHS surcharge, plus £551 for priority processing to get it processed faster, if you wish)
- move to the UK
- you can work, study and use the NHS for 'free' immediately
Total visa cost
= £1464 + £600 + (£551)
= either £2064 or £2615
but the prices may well rise in March/April
So, if you can marry and apply for a spousal visa before the prices go up, it will be at least £893 cheaper in visa fees to marry in the US, possibly up to £2,000 cheaper... and also much quicker, and a lot less hassle. Plus you can start working in the UK several months earlier, which may be helpful for you income-wise.
And if he visits the US each month anyway, you won't be paying out extra for him to make a special trip to get married

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