Oh, yeah... I know he can change jobs any time he wants. The problem has been finding a different job that meets the income requirement and gives him similar job security. Entry level graduate jobs in our region start at £17,500 or so. We could be destitute in London and breeze through this. But we're living debt-free in Wales and it's hard to satisfy the requirements. Utterly ridiculous.
Did you know about the upcoming changes when you and your now-husband were making decisions? I kind of was aware of the rules change in time, but, as I said, we had only just become a couple, and it all seemed too much too soon. Knowing that it worked out in the end, it's easy to say I wish we'd just gone for it. But at the time, of course it would have been crazy.