I think I might be the only person that is not bothered by the all the fireworks...
Nope, I like fireworks! But I think the organised displays are the safest & best.
When I was growing up - long ago and far away, fireworks on the 4th of July (only that day) were legal & as children we shot them off from sunup until after dark. All the kids in my small town did. Firecrackers, bottle rockets (shot out of the old long Coca Cola bottles), little whizzy squealy things, ash snakes, smoke bombs, fountains, Roman candles... These weren't big display grade though - I have a souvenir empty/exploded half chrysanthemum shell casing from a professional display but we never had anything that big.
However, we had SPACE - big yards, big empty playing fields, etc... We weren't all living ars* to elbow next to each other, packed in tight like is standard here. I think that makes a big difference.
Here, I've only ever bought sparklers though, and attended the organised displays.
If you really want to be freaked out by fireworks & feel like you're in a firework-i-fied "war zone", go to Amsterdam for New Year's. They are cray with it there, and it can be a bit dangerous to go walking out and peeps are shooting them everywhere in a crowded urban space. It was somewhat terrifying.