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1. I came to the UK for a week in February 2020 to activate and collect my BRP, then went back to Canada to finish up the final semester at college. I moved properly in May 2020. For the purposes of the application, did I start living here as of the date printed on the BRP (February)?
You technically started living here as of the date you first arrived to collect your BRP - so you would put the date you entered the UK in Feb 2020 (not the date on the BRP).
2. We met online in 2018, but not in person until February 2019. I’ve read conflicting posts across the internet about how people have answered. Is it best to say we both met and started the relationship in 2019?
It kind of depends how the question is phrased, but I would probably give the date you met in person.
In terms of the date your relationship started, that all depends on what date you decided to enter into a relationship... which may or may not be the same time that you met.
3. We will be using my now husband's income to show finances as I was under the threshold until recently. He is paid on the 25th of each month and his bank statements are issued on the 11th, so my hope is to go into a branch and get June to January statements printed for the financial criteria the week of 11th January (though maybe not stamped as I've read of some issues with HSBC in this regard). To be on the safe side, am I right I should apply no later than 20th January? I understand his earliest payslip should be June's to ensure the six months are met (assuming they don't include a "from" date).
You must submit the online application within 28 days of the date of the most recent payslip. So, if his December payslip is dated 25th December, you have until 22nd January to apply online. If his December payslip is issued earlier than the 25th though (because of Christmas), you will have to adjust your application date accordingly.
The payslips must cover a full 6 months, which usually means including at least 7 months' worth to cover every single day.
If his December payslip is dated 25th December, the 6 months will be: 25th June to 25th December, so you include:
June
July
August
Sept
Oct
Nov
Dec
However, if his December payslip is dated, say, 22nd December, the 6 months will be 22nd June to 22nd December, so you will need the following payslips:
May (to cover 22nd, 23rd, 24th June)
June (to cover from 25th June onwards)
July
August
Sept
Oct
Nov
Dec
4. Unfortunately I wasn't able to set myself up with any accounts until I had proof of address. My name was put on utility bills, but the first one to show this wasn't issued until July 2020. The NHS letter confirming my registration at the practice then showed up later in July 2020. I was getting by with internet banks and foreign accounts, as brick and mortar institutes weren't liking that the utility bill showed "Miss Lastname" instead of "Miss A B Lastname"; I had to wait for the water bill in November to corroborate it. I wasn't able to get an NI number until 2021 and the letter from DVLA with my licence is not dated. Basically, I have no correspondence in my name between February and July 2020, then nothing again until November. However, I have three sources for joint statements (outlined below). Would an accompanying letter along the lines of this explanation suffice for lack of documentation on my part?
Your list below shows that you have plenty of statements in joint names, which meet the requirements, so it doesn't matter if you don't have anything in just in your name. There's nothing to worry about and nothing to explain in regards to that.
Joint sources:
July 2020 - SSE bill (source 1)
November 2020 - Water bill (source 2)
December 2020 - SSE bill
February 2021 - Octopus Energy statement (arriving monthly from then to present) (source 3)
May 2021 - Water bill
November 2021 - Water bill
You ideally need your documents to be evenly-spaced between July 2020 and Jan 2022, so approx 1 document each every 3 months.
So, from what you've listed, you'll need include
July 2020- July 2020 - SSE bill (source 1)
Oct 2020- November 2020 - Water bill (source 2)
Jan 2021- February 2021 - Octopus Energy statement (arriving monthly from then to present) (source 3)
April 2021- May 2021 - Water bill
July 2021- Octopus statement from July or August 2021Oct 2021- November 2021 - Water bill
Jan 2022- Octopus statement - Jan 2022And then you can just include a letter explaining why the documents aren't quite evenly-spaced every 3 months.