I assume you own property as joint tenants, if so there is an automatic right of survivorship, (just like tenants by the entirety in some U.S. States). There is no IHT for the surviving spouse, until their demise. The is the residential nil rate band that allows for a further £175,000 if the main home goes to a close family member. Altogether, there is a £1M allowance, providing your Will's are correctly written.
HMRC have complex reporting on foreign trusts. Unless you're talking very large amounts, I'd stay well clear. Even HMRC state that foreign trusts are a complex area!