Thanks for the warm welcome!
Peedal, could you explain the visa thing for me? You are saying we don't both have to get one? I would love to not have to deal with the HSMP visa - it looks like a pain. You have to send all original documents and something about sending my original birth certificate, marriage license, etc across the ocean is NOT appealing! Also, they are just beginning to process application received June 2004. good grief...
So, my husband could get his visa (also, if anyone know what visa he needs please share, I am confused) and I can come on it? Do I apply for anything? Is this cheaper??? cheaper is good

Mindy, just a warning - you may get very tired of me! I do have one quick question. My husband is provided a dorm at the garden. However, I can't stay there so we will still have to rent something. He talked to a lady at the garden who said Wisley was "difficult to approach by road" and he might be better of staying in the dorm during the week and coming "home" on the weekends. I am not thrilled about the possibility of living alone. So, how difficult is it to get from Guildford to Wisley? Is it something that can be reasonably done every day? how much do you think it would cost?
Again, thanks for the welcome and thanks in advance for the advice!
belle