Why don't you just give the Wilshire office a call and explain your situation...It's free unlike calling the embassy in the UK!
I have tried calling the LA consulate but they don't respond to my calls. There is a 900 number that costs $2.10/minute that I've called. It seems to me that the information they have is limited to any notes that the person who is handling my application has written in my file.
What was disconcerting to me were the posts in this forum about other people's quick responses from their respective consulates. But I think that what's going on is that perhaps in most of those cases the Brit spouse is already living in the UK and therefore there is already an established residency for the ex-pat spouse to go to. In my situation, we're both in the US, have been for the last 1+ years and now we're planning to relocate to the UK. In a sense we, the both of us, are starting over with respect to establishing ourselves in the UK.
Anyway, that's my take on what might be going on. As many people here have said, each application is considered on its own unique merits. We're just antsy because it's now been 3+ weeks since our application was received and our requested date for entry into the UK is just days away.
Thanks again everyone for your thoughtful responses.
-hoping2cross