Along the line of this thread I have a few questions.... Basically my husband and I have had one financial disaster after another since i moved over in January and now I'm having American Express trying to collect on my credit card. I've made regular payments on my two credit cards for the past 3-4 years and now I just can't pay them. They're demanding a full payment right now but I literally don't even have £5 left over at the end of the week, so I CAN'T pay them. I know it's my own fault for racking up debt, but I honestly didn't think I would have a problem paying it back and have been a responsible user for years.
Anyhow...I can't file for bankruptcy because I can't afford to fly back and attend the mandatory meeting, etc. The last phone call from the collector stated that I need to contact him immediately because "since you're overseas the same rules don't apply." Now I'm starting a job this week, but I still won't have enough to make any decent payments as the most hours I can get just now are 20 at minimum wage and my husband's wages don't even cover the rent, etc. at times. We can't ask anyone for a loan of the money, so what I'm wondering is since I can't pay them can they really do anything worse than asking for repayments? Does anyone know if they can indeed make threats because you're overseas? I am trying to do the "right thing" and offered to make small payments but they won't accept that.
Anyone have a clue on what my possible options are?
Thanks for your help.