Thanks for the reply among_the_stars, you really have been so very helpful with many of my questions

We really weren't told much at NY. The guy we spoke to was very nice, just asked for my fiance's passport, letter of employment, bank statement, mortage and proof of wedding date. That was it and we had a 2 inch binder full of documentations. He just said, they can't issue it the same day, because they have to verify the information I had (refusal papers) with Glasgow airport, but it should be ready by tomorrow and they will phone us.
We hadn't heard anything untill today. My fiance had phoned the Enquire service wanting to know what was going on, as we were told it would probably be ready the next day, and so far no word, and I was suppose to leave with him today. (Had to cancel my ticket). Enquiry Service said the system said it's waiting for information. I assumed this is probably Glasgow airport since they hadn't phoned us looking for more documents.
I got a call from the NY office, just stating it's still in process at the next level with a Senior Officer. I didn't think this sounded too good. :\\\'( Thought I'd post before I got myself in a complete work up.
When I got denied entry at the airport, it had to go through a Senior Officer (assuming the EO boss, as she said 'her boss') who allowed the temporary 5 week stay (my actual return ticket). With it going to Senior Officer, I immidiately thought refusal :\\\'(
Going to keep my fingers crossed and try to stay positive

Thanks!