Hi Garry,
This is becoming clearer now. I understand, then, that VAF2 is the wrong form. I will have to study the EEA1 form, I am new to all this. I misunderstood about ROA- you said you didn't have enough information to determine if I had ROA- all I have to tell is that I am an Irish citizen, lived in Ireland all my life, am a member of the EU, have a mother that was born in England, I was born in 1980 (I did read something about 1983 as a year that UK citizenship laws changed). What else might qualify me for ROA?
If you think I don't actually have ROA, what are my options to move to UK with US citizen husband? Thanks so much.