Liz (Shayde) and I have had a little timetable worked out for a while now; now I have a job, the plan was for her to visit in March to get the paperwork she'll need for the fiancee visa application, fly back to the US, put in for the visa, and hopefully be here by mid-April.
However, I have spent the last 2 weeks feeling very ill (I've hardly kept anything solid down since last Monday

), and because of this I haven't been able to complete my training at my job yet. My bossses understand; I still have the job. But since it is door-to-door sales, this means I might not be making a that much money by the time she visits in a couple of weeks.
So, I came up with an idea. I would greatly appreciate people's input on it.
1. Liz visits in March as planned. We get as much paperwork sorted as possible. She takes it back with her to the US.
2. If I am still not in a position to suport her by mid-April, she comes here on a tourist visa. I can persuade my Mum to put her up for a few weeks, while my money improves (basically, it is a matter of time), and then I can get a place Liz and I can live in together.
3. When we feel we are at a stage financially where we will be able to get the visa, Liz goes back to the US and applies for it.
4. Liz moves here.
This plan would prove that I am financially capable of supporting Liz until we marry, and she gets a job, and also that we are capable of living together.
Are the visa people going to have a problem with Liz being here so long? Not to mention with such little gaps (a month-month 1/2) between visits? She wouldn't be working, I would be supporting her.
Is anyting in this plan likely to count against us on either end? Would it be likely that anyone official might decide that we'd been "living together in a relationship" while she was here, and would that count against us in any way?
All I know is that we HAVE to be together. It's getting truly unbearable being apart.