Thankyou Tam and Chary! I've read the same statistics, I dont want that to tamper my feelings towards Cornwall though. Cornwall is a very tempting place to live, I think its very beautiful, and can probably offer the calm slower lifestyle I'm seeking (I'm currently from BK, NY). While my move is a long way to come, I've just been very curious about what people have thought of their moves, so I really appreciate everything anyone can share with me

As for Essex, thats where my partner has lived his whole life, its where his family is, so I expect we'll be there in the beginning. Anything anyone can share with me about their experiences in Essex or anyone else really, is very very much appreciated

Note: I just read your reply Jules. I've been told Leigh-on-Sea is one of the more "proper" areas, and its one of the places my brit (hah he hates being called that) considers to stay "temporarily"

It's either there or here with me in the states..but we've settled with over there at this point. Anywho! Thank you for all your replies

It's all very helpful.