Does other couples that have been doing the Long Distance Relationship thing run into this? We hardly have an argument but when we do it always seems to be some stupid, petty fight that gets out of control and is always centered around the 'distance' somehow whether it be her coming here, me coming there, planning etc. And then when we are finally together all is good until the night before one of us leaves, when I typically end up starting a stupid argument prehaps to make it easier to say goodbye? I'm just so fustrated today, because my partner is supposed to be here in 10 days and both of us are under stress with work etc. and I was supposed to go there but work wouldn't give me a full week off right now because we are understaffed. And she hasn't booked a ticket yet because she ALWAYS has to buy one the last possible minute which drives me insane... so guess I needed to vent and see if it was normal couple issues

We've been together yet seperated by the big pond for over a year now...