Hey lola, is your cousin allowed to visit the UK at all now? What about when her husband comes back to see family? Wow, that's really harsh but it just goes to show how serious the UK takes immigration. The UK has real problems with immigration violations (just watch the news every night!) and they obviously can't favor one country over another.
I'm not sure if she's allowed to visit the UK or not. We haven't kept in touch for the past couple of years, so I don't know if she's even tried to make the visit! :-) I would assume though, that she's not allowed in for a specific period of time, given that the reason for denial of the spousal visa was that she wouldn't qualify for a visitor's visa (but that's just a guess).
I'm sure her husband has been back to the UK--he was working with on some sort of Barclay's/Bank of America project the last I heard, so I'm sure he's been back and forth with ease. I can't really see how they'd limit his visitation since he's a citizen and hasn't broken any rules....
At the time, I thought the consulate was being really hard on her, but I can kind of see their reasoning now...granted, she only overstayed by six weeks, but she broke the rules...she knew the rules and broke them, so she should have been prepared to accept the consequences. Just goes to show that the UK can be just as "by the book" as the USA sometimes w/ regard to immigration!
Btw balmerhon, thanks for the "Things to do in Newcastle" suggestions....I'm starting to get a good idea of what the city has to offer....I'm enjoying it! :-)