If you're still looking for ideas...
I wanted a very classy theme as well and when I thought of England, I thought of old, antique, etc. So I went with that theme... little details like damask designs, and fancy mismatched items like what you might find in an antique shop, pale gold, taupe, rich brown.
I also saw a really good idea in the favors thread that someone had bought a bunch of vintage teacups and saucers on ebay, filled it with candy, and wrapped it in toole for their favors. I would have loved to steal that idea, but it was a bit expensive for my budget. Still, tea is obviously very English so you could do something with that idea.
Good luck! I hope you find an idea that you fall in love with!