I swear, nothing about my move over here has gone easily! there's always some bump on the road..as I'm sure you all have dealt with as well...

Anyway..
On December 8th, I went into my US bank(National City) with my husband to transfer $40,000 from my savings, into his UK bank(Halifax) account. He gave her the swift code, and his account information. She said it should take no more than 2 days to show up in his account and if there was a problem they usually are notified before they even finish processing, and no error showed up on her computer so it should all be fine.
On December 13th we went into his Halifax branch to ask about how long they think it normally takes, because it still was not showing up on his bank account. They said it should be there no later than Monday.
So on monday when it wasn't there, I called my banks 1800 number. They said it could take longer for international wire transfers, and to call back thursday or Friday if it wasnt here, and to call the actual branch where I transferred the money from.
I just called my branch, and they say if there was a problem with it it would have been debited back from my account already. But she would have to "call me back later" after talking to the people at their wire transfer area. I said I was in England, so she asked if she could just email me what she finds out.
My husband just called Halifax confirming the swift code was correct, and they say it is, and they are claiming they have never received the money and my bank needs to put a trace on the money..
How long has this generally taken for those of you who have done a bank to bank wire transfer of money? I am just sick over this! It just seems like its floating around and nobody knows where...and I found a house I really love and we can't put an offer in until we know my half of the down payment has reached here! :\\\'(