Currently, my biggest frustrations are with the NHS and Border Agency.
My doctor's office refuses to provide any sort of personalised alert to let me know when it is my turn to be seen and where I am to go. Everything is done from some back room over loudspeaker, which I am unable to hear. The NHS's solution is simply for me to find another GP. Because a receptionist can't be bothered to take six steps and speak four words to me? No. Unacceptable.
I was refused emergency treatment by the only NHS dentist I could find locally, because of my hearing impairment. She claimed she could not provide the specialised care she felt I required. The only "specialised care" I requested was for her to either do her best to speak to my face, or have an assistant in a position visible to me who could repeat things. While in excruciating pain, I was referred to a "sedation clinic" in another town, with a 5 month minimum wait for NHS patients.
At the Public Enquiries Office, having biometrics done: again with the loudspeaker. I had informed the clerk upon checking in that I was hearing impaired, and might need some assistance, which she noted cheerfully. Even my hearing husband missed a loudspeaker call for me; a person seated near us pointed it out.
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People on both sides of the pond are often surprised to learn that each country has its own Sign language, and that even two English speaking countries will have vastly differing Sign languages. Also, hearing people too often assume everyone who is hearing impaired is fluent in Sign Language. I have profoundly deaf friends who are not fluent.
I think my BSL proficiency has surpassed my ASL, but neither does me any good in a world where no one speaks either.
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Regarding signing on TV as opposed to text subs; text rarely does well to illustrate inflection, which signing can.
Thanks to all who are sharing support sites and suggesting places to contact for assistance and advocacy.