I am really glad I have had private coverage and am now worried as I just switched jobs and I don't think my new private is as good.
I have a chronic illness and have had to have surgery twice while in the UK. I would have hated it on the NHS. Yes, my GP did have to refer me to my specialist -- the once, which was like 5 minutes. And I have seen my specialist dozens of times since. I do not see my specialist at an NHS hospital but a private one, and likewise had my surgeries there. The comfort and care was far superior, as were the wait times. I had my own room and bathroom. I was checked on as often as was needed and even had a nurse sit with me for quite a while during the night, when things were not going well. My BF was able to stay until I asked him to leave and came back at the crack of down, to be with me. I had loads of amenities like TV, the meals were nice and I could always ask for food at an irregular time if I needed, etc.
I do have a point of comparison because after one surgery, I got an infection and was admitted to an NHS hospital via A&E. I was in a group ward. There were 3 bathrooms for 20-30 people. I wasn't even in my correct unit, since the other was full. Nurses would not come if you pushed the call button and only came during rounds. The hospital had strict visitors hours which meant my BF could only see me for an hour a day. There was no TV, though once I was well enough, I figured out that you could pay for TV, which didn't help since I was admitted with virtually nothing with me. You couldn't get food unless it was meal time, which was a problem as I was nil by mouth for several days. Once I was allowed to eat, I had to wait literally 6 hours until the next meal. The ward was filthy, including leaving standing urine for 2 days. I could go on....
Anyway, I love my private care and if my new care isn't as good, I will be willing to pay further out of pocket.