Thanks for the input everyone
I guess the trouble is--do we spend the $$$ to continue trying to keep the greencard while we're away, when we could lose it anyway and have to spend even more $$$ after that to reapply again....it just seems like it would be such a stress to try and keep it, I'm not sure it would be worth it...We're moving over in the next month or two (fingers crossed on my visa!) and staying here isn't really an option right now. We were planning on coming back for Thanksgiving this year, so we'd only be out of the country for less than 6mths...would that trip "reset" the clock for time out of the country? Meaning, would we be good for another 6mths out without losing it, or not?
I added things up--it's $545 to file for his 10yr greencard, and $305 for the re-entry permit so he can be out of the country for 2yrs without losing his card....that's $850 and it's $1010 to refile altogether in the future should we want to move back...I just can't swallow having to apply for these and then reapply again later down the line. I feel like they've already squeezed more than enough money out of me