Thanks for the links to the other threads and the tidbits of advice. I especially will try to remember to bring her toothbrush for the good night ritual!
I guess I am just super nervous. I just checked on the flight and it is pretty much all booked. I am worried about upsetting the other passengers, especially the one sitting next to us (we have an aisle seat in the back, but two strangers are next to me). I could give a fig for my own comfort but I hate to be a bother.
Furthermore I feel like a jerk for not getting her her own seat, but I honestly could not afford it at the time, and it's too late now. 14 mo is pretty old to be on a lap (esp as she is a very active child), so my hope is that the medicine will work and she will be asleep for a long bout. I hope!!!
I realize it is only 10 hours of my life but it is making me dread the whole move when I should be excited
I just really hate invading other peoples' space and annoying them. I guess I probably shouldn't have had a child then