I had actually "looked you up" about a month ago because I hadn't seen a post from you in a while. (I read here casually to keep up on visa processes in case we ever get to move back). I was really saddened to see the post about your breakup because, well ya know, we all want to believe all of us will be eternally happy couples. I'm now really really glad to see you coming away from this with a positive outlook. Here's to a happy future for you!