Hello there,
Just thought I would give an update on my progress- or rather the advice that I have gotten.
Buzzocatt tax people in London said: Sounds like I qualify for Streamlined service, should be really straight forward. I have no Foreign Bank account reporting to do. Will charge me £2000 to back file 3 years.
Xerxes said: They would review my situation but it sounds like Streamline, £1500-1700 & once its done no news is good news.
I called another lady I found online (can't remember who she was though) that basically told me that I just needed to back file, that the IRS is most certainly not after people with as low of income as myself but that of course I just needed to get caught up with everything. She said most people will use scare monger tactics. She advised me to call "good old H & R BLOCK" and the embassy (she is in London) & not to worry about it. I liked her honesty on this part, she said that I simply could not afford her services nor would it be worth it.
Taxes for expats: I did call them & had some communications with them but the original lady I spoke to didn't exactly know what to do, she said she would put me in touch with IJ the president of the company but that hasn't happen to far. I have yet to hear back from them & will call back today in spite of me leaving messages. They seem nice.
H & R Block, I called the one in my home town & had to be very persistent with them to put me in touch with anyone that knew about international tax stuff as the people in that office did not. I have gotten an email reply that they can help me but no price or procedure.
The US Embassy tax man was super nice & very re-assuring, he said all I had to do was back file 3 years & if I wanted notification that it was processed to send a set of copies in to them with the originals & a self addressed stamped envelope.
He said to look up "Publication 54" which is a tax guide that I had already located. Nice guy.
So my conclusion is to back file asap, I feel totally confident on being able to do my own UK taxes but US seem really daunting to me! Hopefully I can figure it out or get an affordable service asap!!
Thanks everyone for your advice, I will post another update if anything happens or I use a specific advisor.