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Friendless American in Hampton
« on: March 06, 2014, 08:36:36 AM »
I've lived here for over a year and a half now and still haven't made any friends. Is it the people? Is it me? I'm from north Georgia and moved here with my husband and two kids. I'm a stay at home mom so I go to the children's center a lot but still no luck finding friends. Is anyone out there close to me?


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Re: Friendless American in Hampton
« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2014, 01:18:01 PM »
Are you on FB?  There are numerous Expat groups you could join.  I think most are closed groups, but if admin can tell from your profile that you're American I think they'll let you in.  I know that's how many Americans find others in their area. 
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Re: Friendless American in Hampton
« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2014, 04:58:04 PM »
Sorry to hear it's been challenging.

Is there any way you could volunteer? That can be a great way to meet people and get involved in your local community:

http://www.do-it.org.uk/

Is there something going volunteer / job wise at your local Children's Centre?

What about taking a short course in a topic you like?

https://www.gov.uk/find-your-local-council

http://www.niace.org.uk/

Or Meetup?

http://www.meetup.com/cities/gb/





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Re: Friendless American in Hampton
« Reply #3 on: March 06, 2014, 05:31:18 PM »
I've lived here for over a year and a half now and still haven't made any friends. Is it the people? Is it me? I'm from north Georgia and moved here with my husband and two kids. I'm a stay at home mom so I go to the children's center a lot but still no luck finding friends. Is anyone out there close to me?

Sorry to hear you are having trouble finding people to connect to.  I know since we have been married, my British husband has complained that Americans just don't get him.  We live in Georgia [Duluth] and I'm from here. I'll be in your shoes in 19 short months, just not exactly sure where in the UK yet. Keep me posted on how it goes, k?  I had planned on finding a way to volunteer, I think.
4 December 2005--Met in ATL, Moved in together
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Re: Friendless American in Hampton
« Reply #4 on: March 06, 2014, 08:36:02 PM »
I understand the feeling. I've been in the UK for two years now and just managed to make friends only recently. I signed up with meetup.com and met some expats in the area. Now of I could only make friends with the locals then I'd be set. It's hard though as a mom. I thought that would make things easier for me to make friends (with other moms and whatnot) but I find it makes things harder for me. Probably just my own doing though. Where exactly is Hampton anyway?


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