hi azroomie
i spose i have done well acclimating to the uk but i think that has a lot to do with marrying not just a brit, but a life-long londoner. i not only married him, but sort of inherited [for better or worse!] his social scene. i was lucky in that regard. i also work in an industry where there are tons of young, social people who also tend to be from other places so i spose i walked into a ready-made scene, in some sense.
it's funny though, i have always had pangs of homesickness, but something about being out of the states for 4 years now has made the homesickness different, somehow. it's less urgent, but also more painful because you do see the longer you stay the less likely you are to leave. i love the UK and i'm really greatful for the opportunity to live in another country...it just doesn't mean it's easy!
thanks for the tip on the other site. i will check it out.