Hey! You seem very social and outgoing! It is truly hard to make friends here. My saving grace was this website called city socializer. It's basically people around the city that are looking to mingle. There's tons of married people, single people, people who've moved here, etc. I've meet 6 fabulous girlfriends on here that I hang out with weekly. There's big socials at pubs or restaurants, etc. I went to my first one alone and was terrified but it turned out great. I've tried Meetup as well but found the age demographic was a lot older and we didn't have many common interests.