Kind of a complex situation. Maybe I'm overthinking it. I currently live in the UK on a spousal visa. My husband is in the British Army, and is deployed in the Middle East for 6 months right now (March-Sep.). I had an interim UK job earlier this year, which I left so I could have an extended visit with my family here in the US during my husband's deployment. I arrived May 9th, and leave July 30th. My husband's original plan was to have a two week break (R&R) in August- which would also occur over my 30th birthday.
Well, my husband's grandfather sadly passed away recently. He was very close to him, and for a while didn't think he'd be able to come back for the funeral. He previously told me that he didn't think there would be much point in me coming back for the funeral as well, due to practicality issues. He just got the confirmation that he can, but, he must treat his time away for the funeral as his R&R- so he won't get another break in August. This all happened very last minute and suddenly, with not enough time to plan. Meanwhile, I have a lot going on here in the US right now and I can't drop everything and leave. Plus, I still have nearly a month of my trip left, and other commitments (been helping out a lot at my brother in law's business, etc etc.). My husband is understanding, and realizes it was very unexpected and last minute. So at this point it unfortunately doesn't look like we'll be able to see each other during his R&R, and it will just have to wait until September when he's back for good.
As he's not going to be back in August anymore, I'm highly considering extending my visit here in the US to leave at the end of August instead. Would a May-August visit be okay per UK immigration?? I guess my only concern with extending it a month would be the length of time involved with being away.... I would hate to get questioned or detained about why I've been gone for so long, even if my husband is deployed and I have nothing to hide. Please no judgement for not dropping everything and leaving right away!