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Cheating in school
« on: December 14, 2004, 09:33:09 PM »
How do you handle cheating? My 9 year old was sent home with a note that she was caught cheating on her math today. The teacher has to speak to the principal to see what will be done. Any advice?  ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???


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Re: Cheating in school
« Reply #1 on: December 14, 2004, 10:06:07 PM »
Take a deep breath.......

I think most children cheat at one time or another. I would simply let him know that you don't approve-- which I am sure he knows. I would also ask why he cheated, was he feeling over pressured? Had he not studied? Does he need help? None of these things need to be excuses..but they can be explanations.

Then simply wait and see what the school decides, let him know that whatever consequences they decide on he needs to accept and hopefully he has learned his lesson the hard way.

Overall--- don't worry about it too much.

Helena

edited by me to say---- I really should pay more attention before I reply-- obviously your child is a she-- not a he -- sorry!!!


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Re: Cheating in school
« Reply #2 on: December 15, 2004, 08:07:39 AM »
I agree with HG...most kids will cheat at some point and your daughter was unlucky enough to get caught!  I would see why she cheated--maybe she's not getting the material?  Or maybe it was peer pressure?  Whatver  the reason, stress that cheating is never an option and it does her no good in the long run.  And stand by what the school decides as punishment.  I've seen too many parents fight to get their child out of a cheating "charge" (not that you would) and some were successful--no lesson learned there! 

It's a pretty good thing that she was caught now, really.  She's less likely to cheat when she gets older if she's already experienced the consequences.  In the high school where I taught, cheating was an automatic failure for the grading period and was included in your school transcripts.  On your second offense, you were expelled for the remainder of the year!  I actually had one senior who committed her second offense in my sociology class (on the final exam, no less), and she didn't get her diploma because she had to take the class (taught by me again!) in summer school.  Yuck! 


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