Hi All,
This is my first post on here, though I have been a lurker for a long time. I'm turning to you for advice as I feel like I've hit the end of road and need to make a decision.
I'm very heavily in debt in the US. Some of it was from poor spending choices, but most of it was from being under employed in the past and needing to make ends meets. I was able to maintain payments for a while, but interest rates have now spiralled out of control to the point where I can no longer sustain the debt and also meet my budget requirements here in the UK. Also, the fall of the pound from around £1.50 per dollar to £1.20-£1.30 post Brexit referendum has had a large impact as well. My debt in the UK is pristine; I was able to transfer my US Amex card over for a UK one as well as open a Visa soon after. I also own my own home.
There are also some mental health reasons surrounding this debt, which I will not get into here.
I have no plans to move back to the US and as my wife is not a UK citizen, if we ever left we would move back to her country, not the US.
I know I should not abandon my debts as I've read on other posts, but realistically, I only currently see a binary choice between stop paying my US debt (except my US student loans) and endure the 7 years of my otherwise excellent US credit rating plummeting to "CRAP" level, or applying for bankruptcy.
Some of you might say that this could might affect my application for UK citizenship and while I take your point I will say this in response: When my wife and I applied for a mortgage for our house, there were questions about debt and we were told on more than one occasion that UK debt doesn't count, please do not put non UK debt on the mortgage application form. I would assume that the same would apply to the UK citizenship application form? Though the form doesn't specify, I would assume it is referring to UK debt you have not paid or abandoned?
I did think about seeing a debt counsellor, but I don't think a UK charity could help with US debt? And could a US debt charity help as well since I have no US income? I suppose I could get the credit card companies to freeze the interest, but I would still have the massive mountain of debt to pay off, and I still wouldn't have the money to pay all my UK bills and the US.
Is there another option I am missing?
I appreciate you friendly and informative advice.