My (future)FIL is the one accommodating us when I come and the letter says that me and my partner and son have permission to stay there on the acceptance of my visa, my partner doesn’t have to already live there right?
That's correct.
The letter just has to state:
- FIL owns the property
- that you, your partner and your son have permission to live there after the visa is granted
- the size of the property (total number of bedrooms + living rooms) and the total number of people who will be living there... to show it won't be overcrowded.
On the vaf4a it asks the question “how much have you made in the last 12 months”- since I’m using paternity leave in this do I put the actual amount made in 12 months (17k), or the amount made when factoring In the leave?(+time prior to leave 19k).
Which financial category are you applying under? That question only applies to Category B.
If you are applying under Category B, the amount you put MUST be at least £18,600 before tax or you will not qualify for the visa.... because it must be the amount you are relying on to show you meet the requirements.
Essentially it's the amount you are using over the 12 months that you were NOT on paternity leave.
Also, my SO gets direct deposit, and has an online slip that he can print. This is the official slip with the company (ex. company.com). Do we need something from HR proving that this is the official slip? I assumed so but it’s so hard to get ahold of them that I’m hoping we don’t.
Yes, you must get proof of authenticity from HR.
The requirements for payslips are that they must either be:
- official payslips printed by the company and handed/posted to you
OR
- online payslips that you have printed, that are ALSO accompanied by a letter of authenticity from a senior company official, on official company stationery and dated within 28 days of the online application date.