My husband and I went through a similar experience a little over 3 years ago. I came over in 2013 and we immediately pooled our money and ramped up our savings. We got to a point where we thought we were ready (20% deposit, reasonable combined income) and contacted some banks for an agreement in principle. We didn't go through a broker, but just checked with banks ourselves. Everybody we spoke to said they will not consider my income because I was on FLR, not ILR. My husband pushed back a little bit, asking "why not?" They said, basically, "You have her income to help you now, but what if she has to leave? We can't be sure she will continue to pay for a house that she isn't able to live in."
At the time it was a devastating blow. We thought we were ready, and we thought we could afford a certain price point, but taking my income out of it reduced the price we could afford. But we still had our pile of savings, and so we just kept looking... a little bit cheaper than before is all. We did get an agreement in principle based on my husband's income and our combined savings, and we eventually found our house. When we made our offer, we had the confidence to know that if our offer was accepted and the house passed the survey, the bank would approve us.
Some things to consider:
- There are some lenders out there who will extend a mortgage to you before you get ILR, so keep looking if you really want THIS house, but
- Being on limited leave to remain makes you a higher risk borrower, so you will pay a much higher interest rate until you get ILR (but you can refinance after ILR and you'll love the rate drop).
- If your partner's income alone is enough to base a mortgage on and you can find a house that fits that budget, it's really nice to borrow less than your means and still have an extra income to actually live on. We were forced to buy a more affordable home, but we got all the things on our must-have list (except a view) for less, and now we have more money
to enjoy our life with EDIT: one day build a kitchen with.