Thanks for the replies (and sorry it's taken so long to say thanks, this application is coinciding with a mega-busy time at work).
This new online form is stressing me out a bit, a couple more queries now:
1. Have you ever been refused a visa for any country, including the UK?
We were going to say "No", but my wife was refused on her first application (we forgot to include divorce papers), we reapplied immediately and she was accepted very quickly, it all happened within a few weeks but I'm thinking it may be best to answer "Yes" and just give the explanation I've given here?
2. Is this the first time you have applied for a partner route, or an extension, with your current partner (including as a fiancé(e) or proposed civil partner)?
This answer is No isn't it? The original spouse visa would have been the first time she applied with her current partner (me).
3. Does Mr Timds have any other children in the UK that are not applying on this application?
This is the one that's stressing us. The inclusion of the word "other" is odd as there's no reference to children so far in the application. So, I have an adult son, who moved out into his own home in March this year. If I tick "Yes" here it asks me to list his nationality (British) and passport etc., not a problem with that. It then asks for details of their other parent. Even though he lived with me for the majority of his childhood, his mother exists, I can't tick "Not known", but his mother and I never married, so she isn't mentioned anywhere, so I think the only options are: "Partner not yet mentioned on this application" or "Non applying partner". However, if I tick either of those I then have additional boxes pop up requesting additional info. The first isn't a problem, giving her name address etc. but the other one asks me to provide evidence of her address i.e. utility bills. Now while his mother and I get on pretty well, she may draw the line at this and this does seem to be incredibly intrusive, especially considering he is an adult now living on his own, does anyone have any experience of this?
As always, we're incredibly grateful for the help and advice on this forum, we pick up as much from the advice given to others as well as the questions we ask directly, we're just hoping this is one that has been seen before!
Many thanks
Tim