P.S. It's much easier for us to help you if you keep all your questions in one thread only, so that:
a) we can just scroll through that one thread to see your situation, what questions you have already asked, and what advice you have already been given
and
b) so we don't repeat ourselves by giving you the same advice you have already received in a different thread (which I almost did just now, until I realised you had already been given all the advice needed and there was nothing new for me to add)