You know, I was about to waste time on a reply to you with all the reasons you've got this all wrong.
However, just check this definition for a "dependent relative" under the EU Rules Appendix 1:
the person:
(a)(i)(aa) is a relative (other than a spouse, civil partner, durable partner, child or dependent parent) of their sponsoring person; and
(bb) is, or (as the case may be) for the relevant period was, a dependant of the sponsoring person, a member of their household or in strict need of their personal care on serious health grounds; or
(ii) is a person who is subject to a non-adoptive legal guardianship order in favour (solely or jointly with another party) of their sponsoring person; or
(iii) is a person under the age of 18 years who:
(aa) is the direct descendant of the durable partner of their sponsoring person; or
(bb) has been adopted by the durable partner of their sponsoring person, in accordance with a relevant adoption decision; and
(b) holds a relevant document as the dependent relative of their sponsoring person for the period of residence relied upon (unless, in the case of a family member of a qualifying British citizen as described in sub-paragraph (a)(viii) of that entry in this table, the Secretary of State is satisfied that there are reasonable grounds for the person’s failure to meet the deadline to which that sub-paragraph refers); for the purposes of this provision, where the person applies for a relevant document (as described in sub-paragraph (a)(i)(aa) or (a)(ii) of that entry in this table) as the dependent relative of their sponsoring person before the specified date and their relevant document is issued on that basis after the specified date (or where the person relies as their relevant document, as described in sub-paragraph (a)(iv) of that entry in this table, on an EU Settlement Scheme Family Permit granted to them under Appendix EU (Family Permit) to these Rules as a ‘dependent relative of a specified relevant person of Northern Ireland’, as defined in Annex 1 to that Appendix), they are deemed to have held the relevant document since immediately before the specified date
in addition, ‘sponsoring person’ means:
(a) (where sub-paragraphs (a)(i) and (b) above apply):
(i) a relevant EEA citizen (in accordance with the applicable entry in this table); or
(ii) the spouse or civil partner (as described in sub-paragraph (a) of the entry for ‘family member of a relevant EEA citizen’ in this table) of a relevant EEA citizen (in accordance with the applicable entry in this table); or
(iii) a qualifying British citizen; or
(iv) the spouse or civil partner (as described in sub-paragraph (a)(i) or (a)(ii) of the entry for ‘family member of a qualifying British citizen’ in this table) of a qualifying British citizen; or
(b) (where the first sub-paragraph (a)(ii) in this entry and sub-paragraph (b) above apply or the first sub-paragraph (a)(iii) in this entry and sub-paragraph (b) above apply):
(i) a relevant EEA citizen (in accordance with the applicable entry in this table); or
(ii) a qualifying British citizen
That's a direct copy and paste from here:
https://www.gov.uk/guidance/immigration-rules/immigration-rules-appendix-euFirst of all, I am the sponsoring person and as I've already stated numerous times, I'm the civil partner of an Irish citizen, who was born in the Republic (so he's an immigrant to the UK).
Second, we have a permanent custody order from the State of Alabama (a duly recognised legal authority) granting me "sole legal and physical care, custody and control of the minor child", so it's VERY clear he is now my dependent.
Third, the UK recognises foreign custody orders, as evidenced here:
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/custody-orders-valid-in-the-ukFourth, ALL of this is subject to the paragraph in the Caseworker Guidance entitled "The best interests of a child"
Where a child or children in the UK will be affected by the decision, you must have regard to their best interests in making the decision. You must carefully consider all the information and evidence provided concerning the best interests of a child in the UK and the impact the decision may have on the child.
found here:
https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/1069096/EU_Settlement_Scheme_EU_other_EEA_Swiss_citizens_and_family_members.pdfFinally, it still baffles me that you're concerned with this issue. Could you shed some light on why it matters so damn much that you need to stick your oar in?