I know that we've already been messaging outside of this thread and that you know I'm always around the corner if you, Malc, or the kids need a single thing (meals, running any errands, etc.). Just wanted to comment here so I could see any updates to save you from having to share it in yet another place. It sucks giving shitty news. It even sucks giving good news about shitty things. I'm sure there will be enough things giving you physical and mental exhaustion that repeating updates in one more location than needed isn't going to help.
For the record, I know it's not the haircut you would've chosen out of the blue, but it REALLY suits you! As I said, you're a total badass and the new hair looks gorgeous. And wigs are definitely always an option if you want to shake things up! And only the leg hair stays?! Definitely a cruel joke!