Thanks anyway.
I'm thinking that, really, larger cities are not terribly far from anywhere in the country, so even if we were somewhere that she could get into one within an hour it wouldn't be awful for her. We've been to England several times and it's lovely, for the most part, but we were there as tourists and that's waaaay different than living there.
I prefer a more rural area, to tell you the truth, but I'm not going to condemn the kid to watching sheep when she'd really rather be at a coffee shop with friends or having to walk three miles to get to a coffee shop (etc.). I know that in Scotland there's a real shortage of housing in the more rural/semi-rural areas, so if that holds in the rest of the UK it'd be what determines where we might end up anyway. I also don't want to put us somewhere that would be hostile to her not being "English" (or "Welsh", etc.). Or somewhere that we have hell understanding the locals - some of those East Side folks in Glasgow were almost completely unintelligible and I found dealing with that much harder than I thought it would be.
Probably would do best to look for places where work was likely to be available and then back out of it all from there. And healthcare needs to be decent - I know about the postcode lottery, so that'd have to figure in. But that's a long way (I hope) away yet and a lot can change between now and then.