This is the reply I got from the visa website. I managed to find it in my email trash. The advice below goes against what others on this forum and other forums have said. What advice shall I follow? I'm confused....
"Sorry, sponsorship by persons other than the UK-resident spouse is not acceptable. To qualify for the granting of a settlement visa, the Immigration Rules require that the couple must demonstrate an ability to maintain themselves (and any dependants) adequately from their own resources and without recourse to public funds. Although, the Entry Clearance Officer (ECO) may take into account the employment prospects of the visa applicant, the ECO will still need to be satisfied that the foregoing requirement will be met when the applicant arrives in the UK.
You must have medium-term plans for securing your own accommodation
(questions about this may arise during the visa interview).
As the visa applicant will be staying with a relative initially, a
letter should be obtained from that person stating that s/he is willing
and able to accommodate you as a couple in at least one room of which
you will have the exclusive use and the accommodation as a whole will
not be overcrowded. (Under the terms of the Housing Act, accommodation
is considered overcrowded if two or more persons of opposite sexes aged
10 or over (other than husband and wife) have to share a room).
The letter should also describe the property and say who else will be
living there. This should be accompanied by a copy of the Council Tax
bill in the householder's name (and/or, if rented, a copy of the lease
agreement and written confirmation from the landlord that there is no
objection to your occupancy).
Sent by:
Public Enquiries (I),
UKvisas,
London SW1A 2AH
Telephone: 020 7008 8438
Fax: 020 7008 8359
Web-site:
www.ukvisas.gov.uk [nofollow] "