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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #45 on: February 24, 2005, 07:31:07 AM »
Oh Mindy, it was so funny..at the time..

Me: I'd like the puh-caahhhhn ice cream

Waiter: So you'd like the pee-can ice cream?

Me: Yes, I'd like the puh--caaaaaahhhhhn ice cream

Waiter: I think you mean the pee-can ice cream


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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #46 on: February 24, 2005, 07:34:48 AM »
 :)  You should have showed him what  an American accent really sounds like  ;)  'Listen, PAL, get me sum PEEECANNNN ice-cream.'


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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #47 on: February 24, 2005, 09:25:47 AM »
Except that I've heard "pecan" pronounced both ways in the US.

Should have heard the ribbing I got from my boss when I brought in a M&S "pecan" & "caramel" chocolate bar - apparently I have no idea how to say either word... ::)
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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #48 on: February 24, 2005, 09:39:59 AM »
Does anyone know what you're talking about if you say diaper? I've had two kids here and just naturally used the word Nappy - I just assumed no one would understand the word "diaper"

My husband, the midwives and the health visitor did.  I haven't had call to use the word elsewhere.
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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #49 on: February 24, 2005, 02:02:47 PM »
I still have to get used to the word garage..or as it's properly pronounced here..gar-ridge. :) I also have to get used to cookies being called biscuits (which is also what crunchy pet food is called)
 
 


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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #50 on: February 24, 2005, 02:57:43 PM »
My sister and her husband met my brit bf here in the states in Dec. We went out to eat and Steve ordered steak - filet (fill-et not fil-eh) mignon (mig-non, not mee-on). Anyway, my sister thought he was just undereducated. I didn't know what he was thinking either b/c it was early on in our relationship. Now i have proof from this thread, plus I have heard his friends pronounce it that way as well just last week. Now, who's the undereducated ones? The Americans!

As for speaking like a brit while I"m there - I asked his friends if it seemed like I was trying too hard if I used their terminology and spoke a bit like them and they said no, it was to be expected. I don't want anyone to think I'm trying to act like a brit when I know I'm American, but at the same time, some of it happens naturally from being exposed to it regularly.
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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #51 on: February 24, 2005, 03:17:56 PM »
I wouldn't concider it trying too hard if you want to use the terminology, pronuncuations and the proper words here as opposed to what you're used to in the US. I think it's showing them respect and that you want to learn and fit into the British society and culture. :) We're kind of like babies here, everything's new and different and we have to crawl before we learn how to walk.


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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #52 on: February 24, 2005, 03:22:03 PM »
I wouldn't concider it trying too hard if you want to use the terminology, pronuncuations and the proper words here as opposed to what you're used to in the US. I think it's showing them respect and that you want to learn and fit into the British society and culture. :) We're kind of like babies here, everything's new and different and we have to crawl before we learn how to walk.

Agreed.  It's realistic to expect a bunch of people living in the UK to use UK terminology and pronunciations.  In fact, I think a staunch refusal to do so is somewhat sad.  After all, I wouldn't move to Germany and refuse to learn German!  ::)


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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #53 on: February 24, 2005, 03:24:22 PM »
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My sister and her husband met my brit bf here in the states in Dec. We went out to eat and Steve ordered steak - filet (fill-et not fil-eh) mignon (mig-non, not mee-on). Anyway, my sister thought he was just undereducated. I didn't know what he was thinking either b/c it was early on in our relationship. Now i have proof from this thread, plus I have heard his friends pronounce it that way as well just last week. Now, who's the undereducated ones? The Americans!

I'm not sure that it has to do with peeps being 'under-educated'.  I grew up using saying filet with a French pronunciation, whereas hubby grew up saying fillet which is more Anglicised.

I'll admit that fillet is a bit harsh to my ear, but it really is a case of tomato - tomahto.
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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #54 on: February 24, 2005, 03:33:00 PM »
I had never heard it Anglicised. I really never had and I think that may have been the same with my sister. Her husband spent about a year in Chester, so he may have thought nothing of it.

My family was really wary of our situation anyway b/c he was "foreign".  Nevermind the fact that he has been the best thing to ever happen to me and he treats me like a Queen! Gotta love closeminded families - they've since opened up a bit more.
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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #55 on: February 24, 2005, 03:53:40 PM »
Many of the British-isms we were aware of before we came, having encountered them in Brit Lit or on British television.  Terms like biscuit, nappy, jumper, jelly, and pronunciations such as ‘clare-et’, ‘fill-et’, and (our favourite) ‘al-loo-MEN-ee-um’ are still uncommon to our American ears, but don’t result in misunderstandings.

There have been some new and confusing words, though: clerk pronounced ‘clark’, getting used to going upstairs to be on the ‘first floor‘, ‘garden’ for ‘yard’ (as opposed to a plot of earth specifically for planting), ‘beaks’ for ‘teachers’, ‘bumpf’ for ‘paper’, ‘chuffed’ for ‘pleased’ (to my ear, it still sounds like ‘being chuffed’ would not be a pleasant sensation!), etc.

And then there’s the infamous Geordie dialect.  Not just the extremely heavy accent, but the actual dialect, with its unique vocabulary, such as ‘lugs’ for ‘ears’… Although we rarely actually encounter it, our boys do hear it some at their nursery (from the local employees).  We’re wondering if, over time, our boys will come to have something of a Geordie accent.  Perhaps it will be there for them to ‘turn on’ when with their mates, but less in force when they’re just at home with mum and dad.

Have others here with small children found that the kids acclimate and acquire the accent?

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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #56 on: February 24, 2005, 03:59:25 PM »
I definitely had an accent inferiority complex.  It wasn't so bad at first, then it developed without me even realizing it.  Vnicepeeps' point about not speaking leads to isolation is very, very true.  At some point, it suddenly dawned on me what was happening, so I started to get past that a little bit.

Then, as time went by, I was asked more frequently if I was Canadian rather than American.  I suspect it's because the accent was there, but I'd adopted more of the Brit-lingo.

When I first moved back here to Chicago, I found myself really tongue-twisted at times.  I was so used to being in England, talking to Brits etc.  (just like Mindy hubby, kids, friends EVERYBODY is British)  that my brain was frozen somewhere mid-Atlantic trying to come up with the right words/slang/jargon, etc.  I've received more blank looks than you can imagine!

Five months on and I still sputter when I have to think about what an object is called here!  And I can't convert back to saying "erb".  Let's face it, they're herbs .

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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #57 on: February 24, 2005, 06:39:33 PM »
‘chuffed’ for ‘pleased’ (to my ear, it still sounds like ‘being chuffed’ would not be a pleasant sensation!), etc.

Chuffed is one of my fav. "new" words. I also really like "skint" and "pear shaped!"

And I can't convert back to saying "erb".  Let's face it, they're herbs .

LOL, Kellie! There are definitely a few words that I have a hard time giving up when I'm visiting the US and herbs is definitely one of them!! And believe it or not, garage is the other - for some reason going back to "grage" sounds really weird to my ears now!


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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #58 on: February 24, 2005, 07:22:25 PM »
Oh God!

Try to imagine how I feel! Sometimes DF makes fun of me because he says I sound like Speedy Gonzalez when im angry  [smiley=beadyeyes.gif] It makes me really want to kill him!
But almost all the time he says he loves my accent and he says I sound british when I say some things... I still dont know if he's making fun of me or if he means it  :-\\\\ 
I dont even want to imagine when im in London, i think i wont talk for months  :-[
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Re: Accent inferiority complex?
« Reply #59 on: February 24, 2005, 07:24:00 PM »
Hi Mysh,

When you're in England, people might assume that you are from Spain.   ;)
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