For those that were wondering how things went we have to decided to give it sometime.
It just suck that we can't give each other the immediate attention we both deserve in this relationship
But this is the plan
1. Go out there for a month and have a great time with each other.
2. Apply for the Bunac program and get a work permit ( this will allow us the time we real need to get to know each other before we dive into marriage)
3. If it all goes well... marry here in the U.S ( she likes Hawaii)
4. Move back to the U.K in turn I will apply for a spouse visa
if everything goes well we will only be apart for 6 months.
She about to start work in Septmeber so she should be able to sponser me
Just wondering if I'm missing anything if so please reply