I have great kids. they do the dishes every single night, without being asked. And they usually do it together (they've figured out how to divide the labour). And they sing while they work. They've also gotten better at it. What used to take them an hour, they now get done in 20 min. They have started taking pride in keeping the kitchen clean so they don't just do dishes anymore, they actually clean! This unexpected pleasure has built up over a long period of time and I could only have dreamed that they would become like this, way back when; now it's here! I love my kids!