lucky for me my hubby and i made notebooks to each other.
He started writting in a notebook and in a few weks i would get it and write in it and send it back we have used up 4 100 page notebooks this way. he is sending those for proof of corrospondance. AND i have printed off the E tickets from each viit to each other, or at least iteneraries ( cos sometimes u cant find that stuff ha )
and trip we took to Vegas together and hotel accomodations ect.
PLUS tickets to movies, football games, concerts

i write on everything date time and who i went with. I got photos ect.
u have to just go with what u got i guess.
Phone bill - not for me it was embarraasing i think i wil be fine without PLUS i saved all his voice mails in my cell phone and texts.