What if you
don't have a job to return to back in the U.S.? I had no clue it was so common to have these sorts of problems. Looking back on my past run-ins with the IO, I'm feeling slightly stupid! They initmidate the hell out of me, I must admit. And this past time was especially difficult. I wasn't told to stand aside for more questioning but the amount of questions was a lot lengthier and more intense than before.
This isn't something I've thought about much at all. I spent a month in the UK recently and I'm beginning to think that this was only possible because it was meant to be a two week stay. When I went through customs I told them it was two weeks and if they had looked it up, they'd have seen that my return flight was for that period. I ended up skipping the flight and staying (almost) two more weeks. On the way out, of course, I did tell them I'd been in the UK for four weeks but even the questioning back in the US was more intense!
So, what's a person to do? Would it be a really bad idea to try and go to the UK for a month or more? The purpose of the visit would obviously be to spend time with Richard (he has a steady job there, I don't have a job here so it makes sense for us to get some together time this way) but is that not enough?
Also, I'm feeling a knot in my stomach for the amount of times I've traveled with very little money on me. When I visit Richard, we stay at his parents' place or a hotel (or a combination) and of course, he funds the whole thing so I only need enough cash for the journey. If they question me further and find out that I don't have enough money on me to take care of myself for the entire stay will that look too suspicious? I could remedy this by him sending me money ahead of time but... then there's that little factor of me not having a job to return to.
I am utterly confused now. At first it sounded like getting entry clearance would help ease my mind but now it sounds like you can only do that if you were denied entry once. If you have to wait until there are serious issues what's the point?