thanks for all your ideas. I never been this nervous in my life
As American immigrants, we sometimes forget that we owe a lot to the Pakistanis whose trail-blazing tribunal decisions have made lots of things easier for everybody.
Stuff like allowing co-sponsors for fiances and spouses, allowing shared accomodation, allowing appeals on student visas, opposite sex unmarried partners, spousal mobility, forbiding the ECO's to enquire about people's sex lives, the DP3/96 rule, lots of good stuff like that came came from applicants fighting the consulate in Islamabad.
So even tho' it's the wrong forum for detailed advice, I would like to wish you GOOD LUCK!