I had a job interview on the 4th. It was a crap job and I turned it down, but I liked the fact that it was just a regular day here, with people going to work and getting along with their lives as usual.
My memories of July 4 consist of kids being injured from fireworks (fireworks were legal in my younger days), animals getting spooked, and having to get up early the next day for school or work after a night of no sleep because of the noise.
edit: To me patriotism means being involved with your country and it's government: educating yourself about issues, voting, saying something when you think the government is doing something wrong. Patriotism means loving your country, and you show your love for someone, or something, by helping it to be the best it can be. The other stuff is just superficial.