So... WOW. I finally started telling my peeps about getting married and moving. OK, I understand its a HUGE change. But life is full of change and you don't learn much without it. Three of my closest friends are thrilled. They loved Rich when he came here to meet me. They get it. They will miss me, but are so happy for me. (One of them is actually marrying us!) My friend of 11 years, and her kiwi husband were a bit indifferent. Concerned, not overly excited. They didnt spend as much time with Rich, nor am I as close to them like the other three, even though ive known them longer. Ive told my sister and shes sad im leaving, a little concerned, but knows that I would never make such a big decision if I had one doubt. She has not met Rich yet, but she knows how happy he makes me, how he treats me better than i ever imagined. Shes truly happy for me and cant wait to come visit us in the UK.
Tomorrow, I tell my Dad. Im not looking forward to this. Parents are usually always going to miss their children if they move away. They can be happy for us that we found love, but would be happier if we found it close to home, not in another country! The difference for me is I am 35 and Ive lived here my entire life. I was married and then divorced. I know the difference between love that is true and everything else. I think the part that gets me defensive, is exactly that. I still have a few friends to tell. One of which, I dont think will be supportive, may even have a temper tantrum! But I know in my heart, the decision Im making is right for me. I guess I shouldnt let anyones reaction bother me, but it does to some degree. Im a bit frusterated, but I knew it would be like this. blah.... thanks for listening.
