I don't really know. I would say that I gain it easily but I also tend to lose it easily? Does that make sense? I am much more cautious about what I put in my mouth since I have lost a good bit of weight though!
Do you allow yourself a set number of treats a week or just eat them whenever you feel like?
It does make sense. If you are gaining and / or losing within 5 pounds or so, I count that as "staying the same". I am very similar to you in that respect.
These days I eat treats whenever I feel like it, but if I'm remaining balanced (as far as sugar cravings go and also stress levels, etc.) it usually is a sane amount. Maybe a treat a day, maybe two, then no treats for a couple days, etc depending on my mood.
Do you prefer your men (or women) thinner than average, heavier than average, or you don't care either way?