I had my first child here, and had a wonderful midwife, more than one in fact. I remember when the pain got a bit too much, I begged my hubby to go out and ask for an epidural, but the midwife said I was coping so well, (and the doctor who would give the epidural was doing an emergency c-section) which my hubby didn't relay that info to me........so I coped on gas and air, and the midwife just told my hubby, leave her, she's doing wonderful.....also, I had an aromatherapy rub by one of the midwives.. and I had brought my own c.d. ...which was wonderful, and helped to relax me....and after four hours of labor, I was pushing him out!! I kind of think I was lucky in that sense.........the aromatherapy rub was so good.........I might think I could do it again, just for that!!