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Got It
« on: October 28, 2005, 06:50:36 PM »
After 800 miles driven from the Bay Area down to Los Angeles, waiting in my car from 5AM to 8:30AM and then from 11AM to 2PM, walking from the Consulate down to the Santa Monica Pier and thensome, and a drive back home from HELL, a sore bum and lower back...I got my fiance visa.

And after all the work I had put in on my little visa binder. A visa cover letter, a table of contents, my CV, a work cover letter, enquiries into work, plans for self-employment, e-mails, cards and letters, refrence from my employer...All they looked at was: Aquila's Birth Certificate, my mutual fund statements going back to July '05, my bank statement from WAMU for October '05, our tenancy agreement for our flat, registry reservation for the wedding, Aquila's employer letter, pictures of us together, and a record of all the phonecards I've bought.

It pretty much went like this, no hello or nothing, which kind of miffed me because I'm a big customer service freak.

"Which visa are you applying for?"
"Fiance visa."
"Do you have your completed application?"
"Yes."
-Slide through the little slit-
"Do you have your passport?"
"Yes."
-Slide through the little slit-
"Have you visited the UK before?"
"Yes."
"When?" -Asked even though she was staring at the stamp from Birmingham-
"August 22nd to September 3rd."
"Do you have a photograph?"
-Slide through the little slit-
"Do you have your fiancees British passport?"
"She doesn't have one, but I have her Birth Certificate."
-Slid through the little slit-
"Has she travelled to any countries?"
-Blank look-
"Wales..."
"Do you have any records of her employment?"
"I have a letter from her employer."
-Slid through the little slit-
"Do you have any financial records."
"I have these mutual fund statements in chronilogical order and this bank statement details their liquidation and deposit into my bank account."
-Slid through the little slit-
"Do you have proof that you've met?"
"Yes."
-Slide through the little slit-
"Do you have any proof that this is Aquila in the pictures?"
-Mentally I was like, WTF!?-
"Nope. Her Birth Certificate." -And then I got a little cocky, New York attitude, etc, etc.-
"Blah-blah-blah she has to support you."
"Cocky-Cocky-Cocky-Cocky we're getting married in December and I intend to be working ASAP."
"Trying to be bitchy but failing. Take this coupon and come back at 2."

About ten miles later and three hours sitting in my car doing nothing...
"Nationality?"
"American."
"Here you are."

And that was that. Followed by the nightmare drive home, etc...but that story is one of physical anguish and mental woe.

Anywho, seriously, for everyone stressing...and if you're going to Los Angeles to file for it. Don't worry. They'll try to trip you up, that's for sure. I think that's what they were trying to do, trying to make you feel like you've messed up some how. The lady wanted me to go to "Kinros" which was really supposed to be "Kinkos" and print out more e-mails going as far back as the start of our relationship because she couldn't understand that when you forward e-mails to GMail it prints the date that they were forwarded, not the date they were originally sent. But I had the phonecard records and that shut her up. Then there was the whole proving that the girl in the pictures was really Aquila...And well, I stayed firm and she took it.

Now...She did say something that I need you guys help with...She asked me if I intended to stay in the UK and I said..."Yes, after I get married I'm flying back here to get my marriage visa." And she proceeded to tell me that I don't have to fly back to LA to do that, that it be a waste of money in airfare and having to pay another $494, etc. That once I get married I could contact the Home Office in London and do it there. Now that was the first time I had ever heard about that...So once again, I'm a bit WTF!? I always thought I'd have to fly back and do that all over again and get a marriage visa. So how do I proceed after I'm married?

But anyhow, to everyone planning on going to LA...Keep your heads up! It's a breeze! Just imagine yourself as George Washington circa 1776 for 12 minutes, that's how long it took...and they were late...by fifteen minutes.

And, of course, thank you for everyone who has answered all the question that I've had, along with all the questions and answers that have been posted on here. Without UKY I seriously would have been lost. They should put a link to UKY on the Home Office website or the UKVisas site...On my drive home I thought I should have suggested it to the Consular lady, but, well...she didn't seem the type to think it was a good idea.  ::)
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Re: Got It
« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2005, 06:54:24 PM »
Congratulations to you!


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Re: Got It
« Reply #2 on: October 28, 2005, 07:16:16 PM »
You don't have to fly back because you apply for your "Further Leave to Remain" from here. Birmingham, Croydon, Liverpool and I think Edinburgh are the offices. All they really want is your marriage certificate and a whole bunch of money. You'll need to make an appointment though. Check out the IND website, it has the application form for you to print out, or if I find it before then I can link it for you.

Congrats!
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Re: Got It
« Reply #3 on: October 28, 2005, 07:17:28 PM »
Hi cubanjem,

Thanks  for the heads up! I plan on either flying or driving down from the bay area just like you did in a few weeks. That drive is a killer though so I may think twice!!

Congrats to you and Aquila!


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Re: Got It
« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2005, 07:18:56 PM »
My mistake, Glasgow, not Edinburgh.

http://www.ind.homeoffice.gov.uk/ind/en/home/contact_us/public_enquiry_office.html?

That's about the PEO's and

"Use Form FLR(M) to apply for an extension of stay in the United Kingdom as the spouse (husband or wife) or unmarried partner of a person present and settled here."

http://www.ind.homeoffice.gov.uk/ind/en/home/applying/application_form.Maincontent.0132.file.tmp/FLR_M%20Form.pdf

For the application form itself.
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Re: Got It
« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2005, 07:19:46 PM »
Congratulations!!  YOU brought it all back..   ;D ;D  (i remember)   :o ;D
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Re: Got It
« Reply #6 on: October 28, 2005, 07:42:27 PM »
And this is why I love UKY...Because there are hundreds of people ready to help in no time flat.  :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* I love you! Really, lots!

And whatever you do...FLY DOWN! Avoid the pain :\\\'(, misery :\\\'( and the foul stench :-X of the cattle yards near Bakersfield!

I'm in a very smiley-using mood.  ;D

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Re: Got It
« Reply #7 on: October 29, 2005, 10:26:56 AM »
   I just wanted to say thanks for all the well wishes  :D

This forum really has been the biggest help, actually being able to have a place where other people are going through, or have already been through the same thing. And to anyone that might be reading this thread that is just starting the process, there is light at the end of the tunnel. However daunting it might seem right now.

Many thanks to everyone at UK-Yankee.
Aquila.
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Re: Got It
« Reply #8 on: October 29, 2005, 01:38:00 PM »
Just want to confirm--when you enter the UK on a fiancee' visa and get married you definately do not have to go back to the states. You simply file for a FLR(M). I filed at liverpool---very easy. (of course yes another fee to pay).

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Re: Got It
« Reply #9 on: October 29, 2005, 04:01:58 PM »
Congrats! :)
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Re: Got It
« Reply #10 on: November 19, 2005, 02:43:48 PM »
Dear Cubanjem,

Congratulations to you.. me and fiance am very happy for you. Glad to hear it wasn't so hard.. My Fiances planning on applying in a few weeks.. eeeek.... hehehe

I'm getting all my papers to him very soon.

i hope everything goes real well for you. Thank you for your post.

Take care

Lilly
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