I just wanted to find out if anyone has experience with this situation or can make me feel less nervous about it!!
My partner is Swedish and I am American. We met in May 2003 and in August 2003 started traveling to be together and essentially living in hotels together. As he traveled so much for work and I was quite flexible, it wasn't too difficult. I was finally able to leave my job in February 2004 and we moved to Germany to live in an actual apartment together. As I knew that we would be traveling back and forth to the US, I remained on a tourist visa and had no problems. In August of 2004 we moved to Sweden and my visa was extended to December 2004 by immigration there. We moved again in October 2004, to Vienna (nothing covert, just moving for my partner's job!!) and was told by immigration there that I was fine, nothing to worry about!! So we continued to travel to and from the U.S. and other places in Europe...no problems. In March 2005, my partner got a job in the UK and we moved...again!! When I entered on April 1, I got a 6 month stamp as a visitor. We traveled to and from England 3 times (Spain, U.S. and Korea) since we have been here and I got restamped for 6 months each time. Never a problem... The last time I came in when I went through passport control I simply told them that we would be sending in our passports for residence stamps and that was fine.
Ok...so my partner called the Home Office in August and told them all of the details and they said to fill out the
EEC-1 form because he is an EU citizen and I am not and we will get residence stamps, though he actually doesn't need one, but I guess it just makes things easier. We reconfirmed with the Home Office twice that this was the right form and was reassured it was. So we gathered as much information as we could since we were filing as Unmarried Partners and sent it off. Our first real proof of living together is from February 2004, but there are many obvious passport stamps of our time together before that as well as a letter from a "professional" who happens to be an influential UK business exec (blah blah blah) that is a close friend and was there when we met. He also happens to be my partner's boss. We have leased an apartment here and it has both of our names on it, as well as all of the bills. We intend to stay and I think it seems obvious from our documents.
So, all that said (sorry about the lengthy details), we sent in September, received the letter that it was in process and we are waiting!!! I can't help but be anxious about it, because our situation doesn't seem very straight forward, but from reading others, not many situations are. I have also noticed now that they have stopped using the EEC-1 form. So that has added to my anxiety.
Any words of comfort or thoughts on what to expect. My partner isn't worried at all, but I just can't help it!
Thank you!!!
Pamela