One week before we arrive my parents let me know they are not going to "waste a vacation day"* to pick us up from the airport. The only reason we are flying in that day to JFK was because they said they wouldn't mind picking us up.
Now we have to take 2 trains, a subway, and one long bus ride, a total of a 6 hour journey after a 7 hour flight because neither of my parents don't feel like driving for 3 hours to pick up their daughter and son-in-law they haven't seen for more than 6 months.
* My mother, who is very capable of driving by herself, is a school teacher who HAS OFF ALL SUMMER. My dad gets 25 vacation days a year (more than DH & I) and has half day Fridays in the summer.